BONDADE-6: BONDADE E COERÊNCIA

O homem bom não se limita a despertar-nos para a bondade. Faz-nos acreditar nela.

Todos sabemos por experiência que tudo quanto tem “cheiro de falsidade”, de hipocrisia, inspira desconfiança; e, pelo contrário, tudo o que é autêntico desperta credibilidade.

A verdadeira bondade infunde confiança precisamente porque está marcada de modo simples, sem ostentações, pelo selo da verdade. Concretamente, está marcada pela coerência. Um homem realmente bom possui uma harmonia habitual entre palavra e vida, entre interior e exterior, entre vida privada e vida profissional ou social. Não tem duas caras, não tem duas vidas, não é duplo. É sempre o mesmo.

O hipócrita bem-falante pode enfeitar-se de belas frases, gestos elevados e propostas sublimes. Mas todos se apercebem de que tudo isso não passa de um balão colorido, acobertando um imenso vazio. É uma pura encenação, é uma triste farsa. Cristo chamaria a tudo isso o brilho da cal branca sobre o sepulcro de um morto (cfr. Mt 23, 27).

O homem bom, pelo contrário, se fala de valores e de ideais, é porque os vive: as suas sugestões, os seus conselhos, as suas correções – quando se trata de corrigir – têm o frescor fecundo das águas vivas que brotam do manancial da alma. São sangue do seu sangue. Por isso movem, tocam, incentivam, atraem. Transmitem o calor da autenticidade. E despertam o desejo de imitação.

Nunca deixa de nos atingir positivamente, e de nos incitar a melhorar, o exemplo ou a palavra de um homem reto e coerente. Todos nos sentimos instintivamente dispostos a levar a sério a opinião, o juízo ou o conselho de uma pessoa que mantém tranquilamente a mesma altura moral e o mesmo grau de bondade em qualquer ambiente. Quer seja no lar, na rua, no escritório ou na roda de amigos, é sempre idêntico a si mesmo: aberto, dedicado, paciente, solícito, construtivo, alegre, cheio de fé. Não tem virtudes de ocasião ou qualidades de feira. Não é o camaleão que se adapta aos diversos ambientes com o afã de “ficar bem”. Possui um quilate moral que atravessa, sem distorcer-se, todas as vicissitudes e situações.

Seria bom que os pais pensassem nisto, pois a sua falta de coerência costuma destruir as mais belas falas. E os filhos têm um radar sensibilíssimo para captar o “fundo falso” de todos os sermões dos pais que dizem e não fazem (cfr. Mt 23, 3).

Trecho do livro de F.F O homem bom-Reflexões sobre a bondade

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